Based on Divine Law, Revealed Truths, Canon Laws, Church Dogmas, Doctrines and Encyclicals with Traditional Catholic Sermons from the Saints and well known Catholic Missionaries followed by Prayers and Devotions 
 
 
Preparation for Marriage  
 
 
Treatise on Matrimony According  to the Doctrine and Discipline 
 of the Catholic Church 
Rt. Rev'd Doctor Amat, 1864 
 
  
Key Points:
 
The Matrimonial Contract, has the seal of God's Authority, the Supreme Author of Nature 
3 Essential Conditions of Matrimony: Unity, Sanctity, and Indissolubility 
When Civil Powers Enact Laws on Marriage Beyond Their Authority, Neither 
Respect nor Obedience Shall be Given Them. 
An Explanation of the Impediments to Marriage 
 
  
 
Catholic Preparation for  The Sacrament of Marriage 
from the Catechism of Trent 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Catholic Requirements Before Marriage 
Nullifying Impediments of Marriage (Invalid) 
Prohibitive Impediments of Marriage (Unlawful) 
Rites Observed in the Administration of Marriage 
The Laws of the Church must be Observed 
The Marriage Ceremony and Nuptial Mass 
Prayers for Those About to be Married 
 
  
 
How Catholics Should Prepare for the Sacrament of Marriage 
by Fr. Franz Hunolt, 1740 
 
  
Key Points:
 
If a Marriage is to be Happy, Jesus must be Invited to the Wedding 
Jesus the First Guest, Invited through Fervent Prayer and Virtue 
Choice of a State of Life Requires Deliberation and Divine Guidance 
Obligations of Marriage Demand a Special Grace of God 
Married State is an Indissoluble Union of Husband and Wife 
The Troubles and Difficulties of Marriage to be Carefully Considered 
 
  
 
The Disposition Necessary  for a Happy Marriage 
by Fr. Franz Hunolt, 1740 
 
  
Key Points:
 
A Pure Conscience, Pure Intention and Pure Love Must Precede Marriage 
Catholic Church Condemns Heretics who Attacked Matrimony 
Marriage is Holy and Sacred, a Figure of Jesus Christ and His Church 
Couples Seeking God's Blessing in Marriage Must be in State of Grace 
The Purity of Intention of Sara and Tobias--a Model for Catholics. 
First Intention of Marriage to Raise Children to Know, Love, and Praise God 
Unhappy Marriages are a Consequence of Entering Matrimony in Mortal Sin 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
What is a mixed Marriage 
by Fr. Michael Muller, 1872   
 
Key Points:
 
Mixed Marriages are the Union  of Catholics with non-Catholics 
Conflicting Beliefs Threaten the Faith of the Catholic Spouse 
Pastor Must Teach the Faithful  the Dangers of these Marriages 
Church Councils Repeatedly Forbid and Condemn Mixed Marriages 
Mixed Marriages are Sacrilegious, Unlawful and Pernicious 
These Unions Often Result in the Loss of Faith for Parents and Children 
 
  
 
 
Duties of Catholic Parents  in Relation to Mixed Marriages 
by Fr. Lambing, 1891   
 
Key Points:
 
To have a correct idea of the holiness of the marriage state, and to impress it deeply on the minds of your children 
Never to prefer their temporal to their spiritual welfare 
To instruct them early, and ground them deeply in their religion 
To guard them prudently and vigilantly against contracting too intimate an acquaintance with non-Catholics 
To pray God earnestly and perseveringly to guard them against the evil of a mixed marriage 
Duties of Catholics Married to Non-Catholics 
 
  
 
 
Christian Marriage  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Christian Marriage,Casti Connubii 
by Pope Pius XI., 1930 
  
 
Key Points:
 
God is Author of Marriage 
Between One Man and One Woman 
Adultery Explicitly Forbidden 
Marriage:  Indissoluble Union 
Children First Blessing of Matrimony 
Marriage Contract Sanctioned by Divine Law 
Abuse of Matrimony 
Killing of the Foetus 
Divorce and Sterilization Condemned 
 
  
 
On Christian Marriage, Arcanum 
by Pope Leo XIII., 1880 
  
 
Key Points:
 
True Origin of Marriage began with Adam and Eve 
Marriage became Corrupted by Polygamy and Divorce 
Jesus Christ Raised Marriage to the Dignity of a Sacrament  
The Purpose of Marriage is to Bring Forth Children 
     for the Church, Fellow Citizens with the Saints 
God Entrusted the Protection of Marriage to His Church 
When the Christian Religion is Rejected, Marriage 
Sinks      of Necessity into the Slavery of Man's Vicious Nature 
Great Evils Flow from Divorce Hostile to Families 
Catholics Should Dread Mixed Marriages 
 
  
 
Holy Family  
 
 
Prayers and Devotions  to the Holy Family
  
 
Key Points:
 
  
 
Instructions for the Catholic Family 
by Rev. Thomas Gerrard, 1911 
 
  
Key Points:
 
The Holy Family is the Perfect Model of the Catholic Family 
The Purpose of the Catholic  Family is the Salvation of Souls 
The Ideal Catholic Home: for Father, Mother and Children 
Holy Purity to be Learned     from God-fearing Parents  
Obligation of Parents to     Train and Educate Children   
Suggestions for Fostering Purity 
Sex Education as a positive training in the spirit of modesty  
and holy reserve 
Obedience in the Catholic Family 
 
  
 
St. Joseph Husband of Mary and Intercessor of the Universal Church 
by William Humphrey, 1873 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Mary and St. Joseph Had a Valid, Lawful and True Matrimonial Bond 
Essence of Matrimony: Fidelity,     Sacramentality and Offspring 
The Dignity of St. Joseph as Foster Father of Jesus and Husband of Mary 
Devotion to St. Joseph is Justified 
Jesus Willed to Depend on     St. Joseph as His Protector 
St. Joseph Protector of the Mystical Body of Christ, the Church 
 
  
 
 
The Espousal or Marriage of the Blessed Virgin Mary 
by Fr. Francis Doyle, O.S.B., 1879 
  
 
Key Points:
 
Mary Gave Consent to Marriage, Because her Virginity would be Safe 
Reasons Why God Concealed the Miraculous Conception of Jesus 
The Office of St. Joseph 
The High Value of Virginity     in the Eyes of God 
The Perpetual Virginity Mary 
Answers to Protestant Errors  which Distort Sacred Scripture 
 
  
 
The Feast of the Holy Family:  Epistle and Gospel 
by Leonard Goffine, 1871 
  
 
Key Points:
 
Epistle:  We should offer God     a holy and living sacrifice. 
Gospel:  Question and Answer     Jesus Found in the Temple 
Moral Instruction on Obedience 
What is True Piety 
 
  
 
 
Children's Sermon for the  Feast of the Holy Family 
by Rev. Raphael Frassinetti, 1900 
  
 
Key Points:
 
Finding of Jesus 
Children Losing Jesus by Sin 
Placing Devil in God's Place 
Bad Companions 
Obedience to Parents 
Little Litany of the Holy Family 
 
  
 
 
 
The Christian Family  
 
 
 
The Christian Family
 by Bishop Ehrler, 1891 
 
  
Key Points:
 
The Household of Nazareth is a Pattern  for Every Catholic Family 
Christ Restored Dignity to the Human Race and in Particular the Family 
The Father is Head of the Family as Christ Head of the Church 
The Mother Share Equal Rights and is to be Loved as Christ Loves the Church 
Children are a Priceless Treasure  and Blessing from Almighty God 
Only in the Family Circle is Christian Education Possible 
The Welfare of Human Society Depends upon Well-Ordered Family Life 
 
  
 
The Christian MotherPrayer Book and Religious  Instruction for Mothers, 1880 
 
  
Key Points:
 
The Vocation and Education of a Mother.  Necessary Conditions 
The Child's Introduction into the Truth of our Holy Religion 
God's Word to the Christian Mother. The Mother in her Prayer 
Prayers of a Christian Mother for Herself and for Her Children 
Devotions for Confession, Holy Communion, Rosary and Stations 
 
  
 
The Christian FatherPrayer Book and Religious  Instruction for Fathers, 1883 
  
  
Key Points:
 
The Name of Father, His Vocation and Stewardship and Qualifications 
The Father Must be Truly Christian and Avoid Dangers to the Faith 
The Work of the Christian Father, Discipline and Paternal Cares 
Morning and Evening Prayers and Prayers at Mass 
A Father's Prayers for his Children, to Preserve them from Mortal Sin 
Prayer for a Father's Wife and a Litany of the Christian Father 
 
  
 
What is it to be a Mother? 
by Father Michael Muller 1873 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Mothers are Destined, by God,  to Bring up Children for Heaven 
Instruction of Children is a Royal,  Apostolic, and Divine Function 
Glory Awaits Mothers Who Labor for the Salvation of their Children 
Mothers Should Teach their  Children to Fear and Love God 
The Christian Mother's Daily     Prayer for the Children 
 
  
 
Duties of Parents 
from the Catechism Trent 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Duty of Parents to Provide for the Temporal and Spiritual Welfare 
Three Things Parents should Avoid: Undo Harshness, Leniency and Neglect of Religious Instruction 
The Duty of Good Example 
God Requires a Strict Account of Parents for the Souls of their Children 
Parental Responsibility of Vigilance and Correction of Children 
The Importance of Home Training in Forming a Child's Character 
Methods of Training Children 
 
  
 
Duties of Parents as  Shepherds of Their Flock 
by Bishop Ehrler, 1891 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Jesus is the Good Shepherd 
Parents are Shepherds of the Family 
Prayer Essential for Parent to     Securing God's Blessings 
Parents Must Admonish Children     to Keep the Laws of God 
All Prayers and Admonished in Vain     If Parents are not Good Examples 
 
  
 
Blessings of Many Children 
by Rev. Thomas Gerrard, 1911 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Primary End of Marriage, the  Procreation of Children for Heaven 
Large Families Develop Character, both in Parents and Children 
The Fathers Need Courage, Self-Denial and the Help of Sacraments 
Mothers Develop Gentleness and Tact in Managing a Large Family 
Children of Large Families Learn Generosity and Unselfishness 
Temporal and Eternal Interests are Strengthened in Large Families 
Countries that Reduce Population Make Great Mistake at Huge Cost 
Catholic Response to the Abuse  of Marriage (Birth Control) 
 
  
 
Influence of the Example of  Parents Upon Their Children 
by Bishop Ehrler, 1891 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Good Example is the Best Teacher 
Children are their Parents True Followers in the Path of Virtue or Vice 
History and Experience Prove Good Christian Parents Effect Good Children 
Parent's Scandal Result in Bad Children and Eventual Loss of Soul 
 
  
 
Religious and Moral  Training of Children
 
by Fr. James McGovern, D.D., 1906 
 
  
Key Points:
 
Responsibility of Parents to  Provide and Care for their Children 
The Role of Parents in Helping a Child Choose their State of Life 
Dangers of Neglecting Spiritual Welfare and Religious Training 
Parents Must Carefully Mold  the Character of Each Child 
Severity, Inconsistency and  Partiality are All to be Avoided 
Vigilance Required to Help  Children Avoid Bad Companions 
The Conduct of Parents is  the Child's Guide in Life 
The Fourth Commandment Required Honor and Obedience 
Parents Should Teach their  Young Child to be Reverent 
The Family is God's School for Teaching 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
Glossary of Terms Based on Faith and Morals,  Relevant to Marriage and Family Life     
(Sections of Canon Law are from the 1917 Code)  
 
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Definitions of Laws, Sins and Penalties 
  
 
Divine Law: Eternal and Positive  
The Ten Commandments  
Dogma  
Deposit of Faith  
Magisterium  
Council of Trent  
Theology  
Faith and Morals  
Christian Faith  
Tradition  
Canon Law  
Freedom of Will  
Definition of Sin  
Actual Sin  
The Sin of Vice  
Material Sin  
Mortal Sin  
Venial Sin  
Sin Against the Holy Ghost  
Seven Capital Sins  
Pride  
Avarice  
Lust  
Envy  
Gluttony  
Anger  
Sloth  
Sin of Omission  
Sin of Others  
Sin of Scandal  
Sin by Silence  
Sins Crying to Heaven  
Morality  
Conscience  
The Factors of Morality  
Censures  
Types of Penalties  
Public Sinner  
Administration of the Sacraments  
Sacraments to be Refused to Protestants  
Religious Instruction by Pastors  
Cremation  
Anathema / Excommunication  
List of Sins which incur Automatic Excommunication  
Canon 2340: Obstinacy under Penalty of Censur  
  
Catholic Sacrament of Marriage 
  
 
Definition of Marriage  
Civil Marriages invalid for Catholics  
Primary end of Marriage  
Conjugal Rites  
Birth Control  
Sterilization  
Responsibilities of Parent for their Children  
Duties of God-parents  
Regarding the Baptism of Premature Births and Miscarriages  
Education for Children  
Separation of Married People  
Canon 1012: Marriage Raised to Sacrament  
Canon 1036: Impediments to Marriage  
Canon 1079: Spiritual Relation  
Canon 1080: Impediment of Adoption  
Canon 1081: Matrimonial Consent  
Canon 1082: Matrimonial Consent--assumed knowledge  
Canon 1086: Internal Consent  
Canon 1014: Marriage enjoys favor of law  
Canon 1083: Impediment of Error and Servile Condition  
Canon 1015: Ratified Marriage of Baptized persons, Marriage of unbaptized, Feigned Marriage  
Canon 1016: Marriage governed by Divine and Canon Law  
Canon 1018: Public Instruction  
Canon 1019: Obstacles to Valid Marriage   
Canon 1020: Pastor Investigates  
Canon 1022: Public Announcement  
Canon 1023: Banns of Marriage  
Canon 1024: Banns on Successive Sundays  
Canon 1027: Obligation to reveal defects  
Canon 1033: Pastor Instruction  
Canon 1034: Parent Notification  
Canon 1035: Who can contract Marriage  
Canon 1037: Public and Occult Impediments  
Canon 1038: Supreme Authority of Church  
Canon 1118: Ratified, consummated marriage cannot be dissolved  
Canon 1063: Mixed Marriage  
Canon 1110: Bond of Marriage (Marital Contract)  
Canon 2319: Excommunications  
 
  
Sins Against Marriage Contract 
  
 
Adultery  
Impediment of Crime (Canon: 1075)  
Attempted Marriage  
Bigamy  
Infamy  
Canon 1069: Previous Marriage Divine Impediment  
Definition of Divorce  
Quotes form Popes and Fathers of the Church  
Genesis 1 : 27 - 28  
Genesis 2 : 21 - 25  
Hebrews 13 : 4  
Matthew 5 : 32  
1 Corinthians 7 : 1 - 17  
St. Mark 10 : 6 - 10  
St. Mark 10 : 11 - 12  
 
  
Sins of Impurity 
 
  
 
Lust  
Fornication  
Concubinage  
Contraception or Birth Control (Onanism)  
Incest  
Sacrilege  
Rape (Oppression)  
Abduction  
Pollution  
Sodomy  
Homosexuality (Condemned from Sacred Scripture)  
Cross Dressing (Transvestite)--Condemned from Sacred Scripture  
Self-Mutilation  
Bestiality  
  
Crimes Against Faith  and Unity 
  
 
Atheism  
Agnostic  
Apostate  
Heretics  
Indifferentism  
Infidelity  
Schism  
Abjuration of Heresy  
 
Murder  
Abortion and Condemned Fertility Practices  
Penalties of Abortion  
Accomplices in Abortion  
Euthanasia  
Suicide  
   
  
 
Commandments, Sin and Repentance  
The Ten Commandments  
 
  
Sin  
 
Martyrs in Defense of Marriage Against Adultery  
 
  
Penitent  
  
 
Defending the Church Against Modernism  
 
 
Prayer for a Husband or Wife  
O  God,who hast ordained and sanctified the holy estate of matrimony, for replenishing the earth, for mutual consolation, and as a type of the union of Christ  and His Church; give me grace both thankfully to fulfill its duties.  I beseech Thee continually to bless our union, and to enable
us to live together in peace and love, in the faithful discharge of all our duties to Thee, and to each other.  Deliver us from every evil temper, from every heedless action, which, which may in any way weaken or  embitter the sacredness of that tie by which Thou has bound us together, and which can never be severed.  Make me faithful and affectionate, studious to please, and ready to deny my own will and inclination to all things, Let not the trials and crosses of this life induce me to murmur, 
nor any earthly blessings cause me to forget Thee, the Author and Giver  of all;  but by patience and meekness by prayer and thankfulness, may all things be sanctified unto me, and fit me for eternal union with Thee, Jesus Christ.  Amen.
 
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